Mindy: Welcome to the BiggerPockets Money podcast where we catch up with Jordan Clint from episode 63 and discuss life, death, and how to combine living for the moment with financial independence. Hello, hello, hello. My name is Mindy Jensen and with me as always is my supportive co-host, Scott Trench.
Scott: Thanks so much, Mindy. Great to be here.
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Mindy: Scott, we are checking back in with Jordan Clint. I’m sorry, Dr. Jordan Clint from episode 63 where he originally chatted with us about having five kids and still being able to reach financial independence. Today’s episode is a little bit different. After he joined us on that show, uh his life took a big took a big turn and today we’re talking about what’s happened since.
Scott: Um, Jordan has really kind of experienced some tough times and we he was very um brave and transparent to come on and talk about those things today. It’s a very powerful episode. Um, and we’re very grateful to him. I think we’re we’ll learn a lot, but it will be a tough one. Um, and just just uh if if you’d like to connect with Jordan or learn more about him, um you can find him on on Twitter at @JRClint.
Mindy: Before we bring in Jordan, let’s take a quick break.
Mindy: And we’re back. Jordan Clint last joined us on episode 63 where he shared his journey to financial independence at age 33 with five kids. Jordan, can you please catch us up on what has been happening in your life since that episode?
Guest: Well, I’m still on the journey, I guess to financial independence. Uh, we’ll talk about it later, but I have retired. And that’s not really even the biggest news since then. So it’s been four years since we talked last and uh, in that time, uh, we did have uh some some trauma in our lives and we’ll talk about that a little bit. So, August of 2019, I had four of my family members were were killed. Um, a guy made a series of bad decisions and it ended up in my parents, both of my parents and then my youngest sister and then uh, one of my uncles all all passed. Uh, he was caught though, I guess that’s good. You don’t have to, you know, think about that and then convicted as well and so he’ll be in jail for a long time. But that adds a lot of complexity to to your life.
Scott: That’s just devastating. I can’t I can’t even imagine how how that would uh would impact folks. And and these folks they they lived close by and were an intimate part of of your of your your day-to-day life too.
Guest: My my folks live close by. We talked about it in the last episode, but they watched our kids and were were pretty involved in our lives and then my youngest sister as well, you know, was was still around here. Uh my uncle lived out of state, but they came and vacationed here in beautiful Michigan, uh every August. So they were here just on vacation when it happened and that’s kind of like that, yeah.
Mindy: Wow. So when you’re going through such a tragic event, how do you recommend uh asking for support and receiving support from your your uh family members and friends?
Guest: Uh that’s a good question. Um when you’re going through it, everybody comes and says, whatever you need, I can help with, you know. So every person that you know randomly shows up and says that, it’s actually, I think it’s just kind of how humans work and it’s not really even that helpful because you don’t know, you know, that first week you don’t know what you need and the second week you don’t know what you need and by like week four, they’re kind of getting it over it already, but you’re obviously still way in it and you don’t know what to ask for. So, uh, that’s a little bit hard probably as you’re going through it, but I would say one of the biggest things is uh you need to have this stuff set up in advance. So, uh you have to have your support structure all there and built before you need, you know, an event like this or you need support. Um it’s kind of like insurance. Insurance doesn’t do you any good if you buy it after the fact, you know, you kind of got to have it all in place before.
Scott: So Jordan, would would you mind giving us an overview of some of the the challenges that you faced not just in the context of losing um these these four close family members, but also in kind of dealing with the aftermath of that and the estate challenge and estate um uh transfer that that took place upon that event.
Guest: Yeah, so my parents had prepared some of that stuff. Uh they did have a will and they did have a trust for my youngest sister who was um disabled. So some of that stuff was already set up. And that was all supposed to go obviously much later than we were expecting, um but uh that was that stuff was set up. Some of the difficulties we had were they they did have a few pieces of property around and um then their personal home obviously. And you had a lot of, so there was still five surviving siblings and we had to kind of work through how are we going to deal with this stuff because none of that was really spelled out. How do we split it up? And again, most of it was supposed to be there to take care of my youngest sister and her financial needs and her medical needs going forward. So you had to decide, does anybody want this or does anybody not want it? And there’s a lot of emotions built in there because you just had the, you know, they had just passed and you feel a lot different when you’re going to their house which was the house I grew up in and you’re going there, now has a lot different feelings than it did before. So before it was a place of, you know, rest and camaraderie and stuff like that and now it was kind of empty and it had lost some of its soul, I guess. I don’t know if that’s the right word to use for a house, but some of those kind of things. So, um there was some delayed maintenance on the house. So I spent a good chunk of that fall, you know, catching up on some stuff that hadn’t been done, that was getting put off and that was very cathartic for me. Just, you know, I got some healing from that probably. And it really showed like it was a big house and it wasn’t something that we were going to be able to manage just as siblings and I kind of came to that realization first. Um and then slowly everybody started to come around towards that. So that’s probably the biggest thing was letting their house, you know, getting it fixed up and then putting that up for sale and stuff like that because aside from the finances side of it, it was just a lot of, you know, emotions tied up in something like that. Um other other things that were a big issue, uh passwords. I don’t, everybody says you got to take care of your passwords. It’s really true. So we had no idea what some passwords for some things were. Um but you need to have a plan like if you have it keep it in your underwear drawer or whatever, you know, some way to get all those or last pass or whatever the thing is you’re going to use. But you have random accounts for this and that and you have to find some way to get into those and get all those taken care of and closed up. So definitely keep that in mind and leave it nice for somebody because somebody’s got to take care of your mess. So you got to find a way to to leave that button up. Um also just regular accounts, like it took forever to go through every random piece of paper and find old insurance accounts and bank accounts. Like, uh, there was a bank account from where my my mother had grown up from like 50 years ago. So we had to go find that account and find out how to get into that account and she had never logged into it, you know, even electronically because it was so old and it had just sat there. So lots of that stuff, just those little things and they were super time consuming and you don’t even know if you get to them all because you’re like, at some point it’s like, okay, I think I got to most everything, but I don’t really even know.
Scott: So so it’s it sounds it sounds like um you and your siblings would have benefited from some sort of filing system, um digitally or physically that housed all of this stuff in an organized fashion. and that that that item would have saved you lots of grief and and and and time. Is that is that kind of a a takeaway for someone listening to this?
Guest: Yeah, it definitely is true. So I have all that all put together now, um and I have I have files for all of that and I have the person that’s going to take care of my mess if it ever came to that, they know about that and they know how to get into everything and and where to track it down and even down like once it crosses over like a thousand dollars, it goes into that into that account. So I figure if it’s less than a thousand dollars, then it’s probably not even going to be worth worrying about, but if I can get, if that account’s over a thousand dollars or, you know, if it’s worth something, it’s in there and it’s all filed away and it’s ready for ready for the next guy to to take over my mess.
Scott: Jordan, was there any um conflict that came about as part of this process? And if so, how how was it resolved?
Guest: Um, there okay, so, yeah, there was some conflict. Um some of this stuff, you know, you don’t, you don’t know if today is your last day. You really don’t and you don’t know if tomorrow is, like that’s one of the things I think about, I get on and you know, I wake up every morning and I put on my socks and I think one of these days is the last day that you ever put on socks. You never put on socks again after that day. Um so there were some, there was some kind of relational stuff that was a little bit left undone. And we live in a pretty small community here. So I’m sure they thought we’ll get to that next year or next week or whatever, some of that stuff wasn’t taken care of and that left a lot of uh that left a lot of chances for us to to take care of it differently than they would and and some of that stuff didn’t probably go as smooth as I’m sure that they would have wished. But again, that’s another thing to impress on all of us, like as you get your stuff taken care of financially, you got to work on these relationships and you got to make sure that stuff’s buttoned up because again, I mean today could be the last day, your last day or it could be their last day and you don’t want to leave some of that baggage, you know, sitting around and and unkept.
Scott: How about was there any conflict in in dealing with um the assets or an understanding interpretation of the the um the will?
Guest: Uh no, the the will was pretty straightforward. everything was supposed to go to my sister. Um basically, uh the the rest of us were all pretty well taken care of, you know, we had our heads screwed on straight. so, um that wasn’t supposed to be a big issue and it wasn’t, you know, I I had known about that because I was, I’m the oldest son, oldest kid, whatever. Um and I was supposed to take care of a lot of that. So I knew all that was coming and I knew some stuff was in place and I was executor of their will and their trust and I was supposed to be guardian of my younger sister if if that did come. But since they all passed together, uh a lot of that just kind of got washed out. So it went through probate, you know, like a triple probate all at once because they all deceased at the same time. so they were able to do like one probate and clear, they were able to clear each of their estates and then the uh the disability trust and it all cleared at once. So that was pretty clear. It all was just going to come back to the five of us that were that were still left. Um and we were all on good terms and we were able to talk through most of that and uh there were a few things that there’s only one of, like there’s only one wedding ring and there’s only one of this and that. So some of that stuff we just kind of worked out and it kind of went naturally, I guess. I don’t think there was any, well, there’s not from my position, there’s no hard feelings, I guess. Like I guess that’s for some of them to say, you know, how they managed it. Uh my dad had an old car, he had a 1966 Mustang that he never really drove. It was just parked in the garage for 30 years or whatever. So they uh nobody really wanted that. I mean, I wanted it a lot. Nobody else really wanted it. So that came to me and I spent the last couple winners restoring that. so it’s beautiful and it’s out in the garage, but it’s all fixed up and got a big old engine in it. So I I take that out in the summers, not in the winners because the salt’s so bad up here, but um that was one of the things that there’s only one of. So if they’re ever around, they can come and drive it, I guess.
Mindy: Jordan, a moment ago we were talking about your support structure and how important that is. Who were the people that supported you outside of your siblings and how did they provide support?
Guest: Um, so, uh, I have a real good set of friends. You realize that now because you’ve leaned on them so hard for the last few years, but, um, they’re they’re there and they’re the people that that they have to come there when you’re when you’re not even aware of what you need and they got to be there for you. Like I said, in the very beginning, everybody says they want to help but nobody really knows how to help. So, it’s it’s about having those close people, um, that are just standing there when you need it. And they’re the ones that, you know, you can just stop by and and I got some that I can just stop by. That’s that’s that’s the great part, I think. Um, but one of the things, so if you had asked me this in 2019 when we had our last call, I would have said that my four support people, my closest support people were probably my parents and my wife and then my uncle as well. Um, and three of those people passed on the same day. So you have to have a pretty wide support net to get you through some of that stuff because, you know, out of the top four, I was down to one real quick. So then, you know, everybody else has to step up. So that’s where my friends really really stepped up. Um, I’m heavily involved in my local church as well, so you get a lot of support from there. and if that’s not something that’s in your life, you have to find a different way to offset it. So, you have to have these people. Uh, we we tend to isolate ourselves in the fire movement, I think, you know, I’m independent, I can go to work, I can save, I can, you know, manage my own my own properties, I can underwrite my own deals, all this kind of stuff. And and you get pretty independent. But we really, we’re not made to live independent. We’re made to live as a team. and even if you have it all together today, you need to be there to support somebody else and there will come a day when you don’t have it all together and you’re going to need that support.
Mindy: How did you practice self-care while you were grieving?
Guest: Well, I I think that initial period, there’s there’s all the people around. So, right after something like this happens, you’re just bombarded with food and people and and I’m a natural introvert. So, some of that is like after after a week of that, it was like, okay, I don’t need this level of support at this point, you know, that was uh, you know, some of the other family members needed that level of support, but I didn’t need it. So I was actually, I wasn’t working very much at that point. Um, I’m sure we’ll talk about that later, but I was down only one day a week at this point in my W2 job and uh, I was already back at work and within that first week and I’m like, I got to get back and just have something some bit of normality in my life, you know. So I think that really helped me, but uh, I’ve grieved with other people since then, you know, we had we had all this COVID, you know, stuff and lots of people lose loved ones during that and and other things and I’ve been alongside these people now, and everybody’s going to do this process a little different. I think that’s one of the biggest things I’ve learned. So, I’m naturally inclined more towards that repetition and introversion and things like that. So it really helped me to kind of have the access to be with people and then to be away and do my own stuff. And that was what I really needed. Um, and then again, being at work, I enjoyed work. I was working because I liked it, not because I needed the money. So it was real comfortable to be there and it gets you out of like you don’t want to go through old old tax bills from a year ago of your parents, like that’s not what you want to do for 24 hours a day. you got to have something else to to do and to dwell on and to think on. So a lot of that is is what I did. um, and then we were in process of updating our farmhouse. We were doing a renovation on our own personal house that was that was pretty much underway at that point and uh, I took a lot of time in and you get to build on some stuff and I really enjoy that and I got to think back on all the things that my dad had taught me all growing up. That’s where I had got to this point was was from his involvement. So I really enjoyed that and again, that was that was pretty healing probably. So, I’m a hands-on kind of guy and and building stuff really helps.
Mindy: What was the most helpful thing someone did for you in the moment? And I’m I’m asking from the standpoint of someone who will in the future have a friend going through, hopefully not something exactly like you were going through, like you went through, but you know, everybody is going to die. So, at some point, I am going to have a friend who’s loved one has passed and they they are overwhelmed with grief. What was one of, but you know, when you’re in the moment, you’re like, I don’t know what to do. I’ll do anything. And that’s not really helpful to you from for everybody to say, oh, let me know what you need. I don’t know what I need. And I and I know that that’s the position that you’re in. So what was something that was really, really helpful that somebody did that you didn’t have to ask.
Guest: We we have one really close friend. his name’s Jason. and he was there from that first day and he just took it on himself and he was going to do all the errands. So if somebody needed to drive up to town and fill out some paperwork or somebody needed to get picked up from the airport, he just handled all of that. So you know, you have tons of people coming in uh in in the moment and stuff like that. But he handled all of those kind of things, just just ran around. And and there is tons of, I mean, I guess, I don’t want to just name one person, I guess, but people came over and, you know, we’re down by the beach, so people would just come and say, hey, let’s go for a walk and we would just go out for a walk and you go out for three, four mile walk and you come back and and that was the stuff that was really helpful because again, there’s so many people around in that beginning and there’s there’s not really that much to talk about. honestly, when you’re when you’re there because there’s so much to talk about in a way, but there’s not there’s nothing specific. So you just kind of need to have like you need to have some semblance of regular life and those are the that those people in your support structure are your regular life, especially now, like going forward, those were gonna be my support people. So, you know, number whoever number five was moved up to number two, you know, they got a big promotion there. uh and and now I was going to need to lean on them a lot more.
Scott: Yeah. so it mhm it sounds like just people being there to be around you and then also, I’m gonna stand up and and help with all of the errands or all of the little things that I that I can uh to make your life easier for as long as it takes um weeks and and months even following the event. That’s that’s the way to really be there for the the close people in your life if they’re going through something like this.
Guest: Well the other thing I would I would say and this is hard even when I help other people grieve now, it’s still hard for me because it’s not, where you are in the grieving, you know, how close you are to the to the person that passed, changes how long it takes you to to, I don’t know, get back to normal isn’t the right word you want to use, but to to find some semblance of that again. So, you know, the neighbors are sad for a week, you know, and then they’re at the funeral and then they’re not sad anymore. Like because they’re neighbors, you know, that’s that’s kind of how that works. So it’s not that they don’t care, it’s just that their healing was a week’s worth. and it’s going to be like when the neighbor dies, your healing is going to be a week’s worth. And you have to understand some of that. So you need to give grace to some people because some people are going to say things a little too soon. Like somebody’s going to say, hey, why aren’t you doing this? And in your mind, you’re like, oh, that was three weeks ago. I’m not ever going to think about that again. Maybe in like four years I’ll think about that. But in their mind, it’s already been three weeks, why haven’t you thought about, you know, mowing the yard or whatever the thing is? So you need to have some understanding for the people grieving but also for the people that are around you that are trying to support you and and they don’t really know what to say and they don’t know how long it’s going to be before you mow your yard again. you know, though those kind of things. So I’ve run into that some, you know, with helping other people because it’s easy for me to say, it was easy for me to go back to work. That was the biggest thing. Uh you know, I wasn’t working a lot, but I was there and I I enjoyed it. and it was easy for me to go back and some people it’s not easy to go back and that’s not part of their healing. and it was part of my healing.
Scott: You know, for talking about what we wanted to cover today in the show, you you had some really good um you know, logistical points, which are kind of hard to transition to at this point, but um it would be it would be, I think it would be great to hear hear some of those things that, you know, your takeaways or advice that you might have for folks listening to the show to button up, um from the lessons that you’ve learned here, as it relates to preparing your financial position, your estate, life insurance, those types of things.
Guest: Yeah, uh I I can do that. Um the one thing you got to think about is life insurance isn’t for you. Uh life insurance is for those people that you care about. Uh so it’s money you could have spent on pizza and and beer, but it’s money you delayed and now you’re kind of investing it for them. So make sure you, make sure you leave them the right amount, you know, you want to make sure if you’re still working, you need to leave enough to offset that salary for however, however long it’s going to be. Um and it’s just nice. So uh my parents were were older, they were in their 60s and they were getting to the point where some of their some of their term policies were starting to lapse, but they had they had several, but they were right at that stage where they didn’t really need it anymore and we didn’t really need it anymore. So it was kind of in that transition period. But um that is one thing to think about and just be very mindful of of what you’re leaving and and how much you’re you’re leaving for those next people. Uh the other thing is, the cheapest insurance and isn’t necessarily the best insurance. So we always talk, hey, I saved $85 on my auto insurance or whatever. Maybe you didn’t want to save $85 on that. Uh the insurance is there to cover, you know, events, big events, events where you screw up or where there’s some kind of major catastrophe. and that’s what insurance is for. So, that’s one thing to look at is make sure you understand what your policies actually cover. So, I don’t know if it’s the case everywhere, but Michigan has like a minimum insurance level and most people just get the minimum insurance level. Well, the minimum insurance level covers like your car and that’s basically all. It doesn’t cover any kind of any kind of real damages or traumatic experiences or injury that you give to other people, you know, a lot of that isn’t even covered on the minimum policies. So you want to make sure um that you look at that and if you decide the minimum is what you want, then you made that decision, but just don’t assume that that $85 wasn’t actually cutting out potential benefits. Umbrella policy, that’s another thing that we did learn in context of this. Some umbrella policies only cover the stupid things that you do to other people and some only cover the stupid things that other people do to you. So you want to make sure that you understand what your umbrella is actually covering, that it that I’m assuming everybody wants a mutual one, you know, if if you have a slip and fall at an apartment, you want that covered, but also if you back into somebody’s truck at your apartment, you know, you want that one covered, you know, stuff like that. So you want to be aware of how those umbrellas are actually uh paying out. Most people don’t read any of the details of their insurance policy and they just sign whatever it is. So, I know it’s boring and you’re not going to want to hear that, but you probably need to understand what what your stuff is.
Mindy: Okay, so you had a sister with special needs. Is there any certain type of additional planning needed?
Guest: Yeah, there there is additional planning needed. Um, there’s special, there’s special actual like legal structures. There’s a thing called the special needs trust which kind of understands that this person’s gonna need care forever and they’re not going to be at the level where they’re going to be able to handle finances on their own. Um but a lot of that, you want to make sure you get set up ahead of time. Uh cause if things aren’t taken care of, it kind of defaults to the state and most people don’t want the state managing their affairs at that level. So in this situation, there was a special need trust and it was set up and it actually wasn’t needed because of how everything transpired, but that is something to very much think about uh as you look, there if you, if you go through your will, they talk about things like if your child is addicted to cocaine, he doesn’t get his money, you know, or it gets delayed 10 years and stuff like that. So there’s a lot of weird things like that, but one of the things is about disabilities is making sure that, so, I mean, you want to make sure that the right people are able to handle that and if it’s not going to be that child, then they need to have some kind of support structure built in to those layers, which that disability trust really does allow. Uh to make sure somebody’s there to handle that because you don’t want, you don’t want your your kids or your grandkids or whatever becoming wards of the state because you didn’t fill out your your paperwork right.
Scott: Jordan, who who um should one hire to assist them with this with the process of of setting all of these things up.
Guest: So, we even before this, uh this incident, we had been looking at uh financial planners because we had kind of passed the, well, long ago, we had passed the realm of Turbo tax. We couldn’t do our taxes on Turbo tax anymore as things started to grow, you know? Uh so we had found a a dedicated tax accountant and they were doing our taxes and eventually we got past what they were even able to do. So we were getting into some more complex stuff and they’re like, I’m not really comfortable, you know, trying to figure this out. So you need to kind of find your own, your own setup. So we started to look around. Um most of the financial planners actually charge you like a percent of your net worth essentially to manage your portfolio. and that really turned me off because I don’t like giving away percent and I don’t like knowing what the not knowing what the bill is going to be and things like that. a nd as you’re hoping to continue to grow and you don’t want that, you know, management fee to continue to grow on the same at the same rate. So we were actually able to find a financial planner that was fee-based. So everything was pretty fixed. So you knew how much the first year was gonna be, that was obviously going to be more. and you know how much the years after that are gonna be. and now we have a regular set up with that. Um again, this is kind of like the blocking and tackling of financial independence, I guess and it’s kind of boring, but it’s really nice to have somebody there who understands how your finances interact with your taxes because mine are different than Scott’s and Scott’s are different than Mindy. Um and it’s nice to have professionals that do that. So we’re all smart people, but we’re not professionals at interfacing our financial plans and our tax plans. So I think that’s one of the biggest things. Also the financial planners that we have, they’re very conservative and they force us to do things that we would maybe have skipped or not wanted to do. So, we, now that we’ve been with a financial planner, we get our money into our Roth every year, even though I’d rather spend it on more real estate, but it goes into the Roth as it’s supposed to do. Um it isn’t just mutual funds and it just, you know, it grows on its own thing. So, but they they really force you to those things. They’re gonna make you get a will, they’re going to make sure your your stuff’s all in the right kind of trusts. When it updates, they’re going to be like, hey, you know, we updated that will four years ago, but now something has changed in how the government perceives something. so we need to make an adjustment. And you’re not going to know when you need to make an adjustment, but they are. Uh so I definitely think that’s, that’s amazing. They uh that profession, CPAs and and accountants and things like that are naturally risk averse. So I think that helps a lot. So we’re blind sometimes to the risks that we want to take. You’re like, oh, I want a 50 unit trailer park that doesn’t have any tenants and all the units are abandoned. That seems like fun to me. to my accountant, it might not seem so fun. So, they’re not there to just direct your business, but they really do provide you some uh additional support when maybe you need some additional support on the on the level headed thinking side.
Scott: Jordan, so you you are currently fi and have been fi for many years, right? Um put yourself in the shoes of someone who is getting started and has maybe let’s call it less than $50,000 in net worth and earns $50,000 a year. Um what is appropriate amount to think about expen- time and energy to and money to spend on the exercise of planning for estate issues and those types of things and what is overkill in your mind for that person? Because I think it evolves over over your journey.
Guest: I definitely say that’s true. Uh so, I mean, the very first thing you can do is get a will. You can get a will and I think when I got my very first will, I think it was $50 to get a will. Like there was a blank like a form that my job had and you filled it out and it tells you how to assign all the people and then you submitted it. I’m pretty sure it was 50 bucks. they might have subsidized a little bit. but it’s very reasonable. So that at a minimum, that’s your very first step. Um I think one of the next things you need to think about is that that life insurance side of things like if you have kids, you need to think about that or just a spouse or significant other and even if you have nothing, like you really don’t have any other, you know, next generation to leave it to or anything like that. You need to think about clearing your own debts because you don’t want to leave, you don’t want to leave it in a situation where they have to do a fire sale on whatever you do have. So if you don’t have enough to pay your debts, then then people are going to have to sell and if you’re forced to sell, that’s one of the things we look for when we target, you know, cold calling or whatever, you look for those distresses. So that’s a distress that you look for, but you sure don’t want to have to have your estate even after you’re gone, kind of liquidated at a discount to clear some, you know, 80% mortgage or whatever, you know. So I’d say those are the first things to clear up. As your stuff grows, I would say start looking at that trust, but you’re probably going to need, again, I’m not a a financial planner or anything like that, but I’d say once you’re up into the 4 or 500,000s probably, something like that, you want to start looking at at a trust and getting that set up. because you’re hoping that number keeps growing and uh the trust really set up well where it can start at a lower amount and as things bump up, everything follows how you how you structured your trust.
Scott: That that’s kind of consistent with with my journey. I I probably should have had more in place in the early years but I did not have any insurance or state planning in place. Um and then once we had our baby on the way, that’s when we set up a revocable trust and hired an estate planning attorney uh versus a financial planner although I think a financial planner would have done a great job as well. Um, to to set up the the again, a revocable trust where everything goes through it. and it’s amazing how now every investment that I make is through this vehicle and it’s kind of like a it’s just a part of my my reflexes when I’m thinking about a new investment or whatever. But it is a different a change in the way I thought about things and yeah, I think I think it’s I think I would generally agree with with that that flow of uh yeah, right 50 will if you have no assets um and are getting started. um and ensure those types of things. but and then get more serious about it as you get to a couple hundred thousand in that worth.
Scott: Um, would you would you tell us a little bit about your um retired life right now, kind of switching subjects to kind of like, what what is what is day-to-day life for for Jordan nowadays? And and what are you up to?
Guest: Life is fantastic. It really is fantastic. Uh the first thing I want to say about retired life like actually being retired is you bring all of your problems into your retirement. Um so it’s just like if you move. So if you move cross country, you’re like, I’m gonna get away from all those bad habits and I’m going to move to San Diego, right? You’re going to find all those same bad habits in San Diego. That’s just how we are. Uh so one of the things you have to realize like if you hate your life and you think it’s because of your job, retirement is not going to fix that. Like you’re going to find the new thing to hate. It’s not going to be you, you’re going to blame something else, obviously. But but some of those attitudes just carry right on over. So make sure you understand that. Um we all have this as a long-term goal. Some of us have been thinking about it for, you know, 15, 20, 30 years, whatever, but understand that if you don’t get some of those those head space issues taken care of, that you’re going to have some of the same problems in there. That said, I don’t have any problems. I’m great, but you’re you’re the same person. So I was great before and I’m still great, right?
Scott: Absolutely. Well do do you have any source of of income? or How do you kind of occupy your your time at this point now that you’re retired?
Mindy: He has five kids, Scott. His time is taken.
Guest: They are being very quiet and they’re not on the Xbox, so they don’t suck up any internet right now. So, Oh, wow. Yeah, yeah. Um no, uh it’s it’s pretty good. It’s a good balance. Uh almost all of our income comes from real estate in some form or fashion. Uh my wife does have her realtor’s license, so there’s a little bit of sales still happening around here. So she could get a little bit of income from that, but we still consider that real estate income, you know. Uh most everything is is long-term rentals. That’s how we support ourselves just passive in a way. Like I don’t have to show up and put in hours or whatever, but some of it does take some some management on my side. That’s one of the things I found from being retired is, well, I mean, I knew this already, but I can’t sit around and do nothing. So I have to do some things. So I found the really good balances to have a project that sucks up four, five hours, six hours a day. That’s what I really like. So, uh we get up, we have family breakfast, everybody goes about stuff that they need to do and I usually take a kid or or just go by myself and have something that I’m working on. So I do all the own, you know, our own turns on our units when they come up and we’re still able to find a few things that are that are out there and we can pick them up and so they take a little bit of maintenance and they take a little bit of projects and that’s the stuff I like to do. So, that takes a lot of time. Uh I had just finished last year, I finished my doctorate. So I am officially a doctor now for for whatever that’s worth. Dr. Clint, we’ve we’ve been uh we haven’t been um using the honorific today. Yeah, yeah. Uh I don’t force everybody to do it. I force my brother to do it because he’s a medical doctor, so he has to call me doctor as well. I’m not a medical doctor, but he’s the only one that’s forced to call me doctor. Everybody else can call me whatever. Um but that sucked up a lot of time, you know, last year, I was finishing up that and writing a dissertation and all those kind of things. So, that that was last year, but that’s over now. Um yeah, I after uh after my folks passed, I’d gone from three days a week, which was what we were at when we talked last time. I went down to one day a week. So I still worked there for a couple more years after that where I just put in one day a week at that same company. uh mostly doing software stuff. uh and I was able to keep everything running for a while. but eventually got to the point where I couldn’t stay in the business in my head enough to know really what was going on. you know, even to do the software. So, it just kind of came to the point where it was like, I can’t do just one day cuz it’s not really helpful enough. You know, I didn’t even know what was going on during the rest of the time. So, uh I did step away and stepped away in in 2021. So that was my last time working at all. and I’ve been uh been out here on my own since then and it’s been great.
Mindy: Dr. Clint, do you have any final takeaways for our listeners to help them prepare for when life throws them a curve ball.
Guest: Uh again, I think the most important thing is having that support structure and making sure, making sure you’re there to help people. Like it’s it’s a two-way street. So if you’re only going to look to receive, then it’s not really going to, it’s not going to pan out. Uh but you need to have some people close to you and some people that you can be really honest with. It’s hard to be honest. Uh you know, it’s easy to be a troll on the internet, but it’s real hard to to be honest even with your friends. So I think that’s one of the things you got to make sure and if you don’t have that right now, maybe that’s 2023 goal is to go out and get a couple of people that you can be that close with where you can, you know, you have to be able to share when you’re when you’re struggling. And uh in turn that’s going to come, you know, that’ll come back for you. and I think it’ll come all around and and really pan out. I’d say that’s that’s probably the the number one thing.
Mindy: Yeah. You had a really great quote when you were when we were emailing before the show, you said, you can’t buy old friends.
Guest: You can’t buy old friends. Uh that is the most important thing. Um you can buy a lot of stuff. You can buy you can buy a Baco, you can buy a car, whatever you need to buy, but you can’t buy those old friends. So you got to you got to start investing in them in now. I think that’s, I think that’s real important.
Mindy: Jordan, I really appreciate your time today and I’m I’m so thankful that you came back on the show to share with us uh the things that have happened since then and how you’ve dealt with them. I think there’s a lot of lessons to be learned in here. Most importantly, get a will, have a password plan, get your affairs in order now so that should your loved ones need them, they’ll be able to they’ll be able to find them easily.
Mindy: Okay, Jordan, thank you so much for your time and we’ll talk to you soon.
Mindy: All right, Scott, that was Jordan Clint and I am thankful we got a chance to have a conversation with him. I am sad that it was under these circumstances. Um one thing that he discussed during the show is the concept of having all of your affairs in one order, having all of your uh documents together in one place and our friend Chelsea Brennan from Smart Money mamas has created something called the emergency binder. and I actually have it. It’s the family emergency binder uh from Smart Money Mamas. It’s a it’s a little flash drive that you put in on your computer and it asks you all sorts of questions. You fill out all of your information so that you can give this to somebody, they have or keep it in your safe deposit box and let them know where it’s at. Um so that they can get at it should you pass. Um and you can find that at emergencybinders.com. It’s a great way to get you started thinking about all the things that you’re really not thinking about. You have all these passwords and you don’t really know where to put them. You don’t want to write them down, you know, here’s a little sticky note by my computer. You don’t want that, but you want people to be able to get into all of your documents.
Scott: But I I recognize from today is I’ve got a million passwords here. and while we went to all this trouble to set up, you know, a revocable trust and all this kind of stuff earlier this year in preparation for our baby, I guess earlier in 2022, I’m sorry. Um, I have not, I did not have a plan for passwords. So I should definitely figure that out. Um, make sure that that’s all, all a place. um, especially if me and my wife were to pass, um, which as we were reminded today can can definitely happen. And uh, so that’s something I, I should definitely think through and I will definitely check out emergencyfinders.com. That’s a great tip. I, I, I have not heard of that before.
Mindy: Yeah, that’s a great site.
Scott: If if this is top of mind and you want to do some further listening for this, we we had another episode on podcast number 49, Bigger Pocket uh Money podcast uh episode 49 with Harry Mix and we talked about uh financially preparing for inheritance money and there’s other good tips there. It’s not just preparing all these things. Uh it was also, he pointed out thinking about what you want for funeral arrangements, right? Do you want to have your heirs debating what to do about your funeral those types of things. That’s not a fun thing to think about, but it is something to do. Um and and and own that and and and have that ready so that you’ve, you’ve done that and not are placing that burden on on the next of canner or whoever’s inheriting your state. Um, and so that’s that’s a tough thing too, but getting all this stuff done is part of, you know, checking, checking some really important boxes, um, that I think are responsible and and uh, um, it’s not for you, it’s for the folks that come next.
Mindy: Exactly. You are planning to take away their burden of time spent on figuring out where all of your things are and the more time you put into it, the easier job they will have. This is so sad wrapping up your life.
Scott: Well, one one uh, I don’t know if this one part it was interesting for me was like, what do you, what do I want to happen for me after that? And I and so I talked to my wife about it and I have my my instructions are essentially to uh get cremated and then to have my ashes scattered over a rugby field, a makeshift rugby pitch somewhere in the state of Colorado. It’s, it’s powerful to think about that.
Mindy: It is powerful. It’s it’s hard.
Scott: Yeah. All right, Scott, should we get out of here?
Mindy: Let’s do it.
Mindy: That wraps up this episode of the Bigger Pockets Money podcast. He is Scott Trench and I am Mindy Jensen saying, take care of yourself.
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